Do you know what he’d be doing if he had been really over you?
Absolutely Absolutely Nothing. He’d feel indifferent in your direction.
If he’s got strong thoughts about you – well, those strong feelings don’t come from nowhere. They come from lingering emotions about yourself.
He’s harming – because he’s messed up concerning the breakup. Those who are hurting lash call at a lot of other ways – however it all is due to the unresolved emotions they’ve got inside.
If he’s lashing down – provide him room. Nothing effective may come from engaging together with his emotions that are negative and he’ll probably draw you into their negativity also.
Therefore if he’s raging, or bellowing, or expressing their anger – let him. Don’t engage. Don’t respond. Don’t attempt to turn their negativity into positivity.
The only path for him to have over their anger is when he does it himself – you can’t help him. Therefore provide him the area to obtain over their negativity, and fundamentally he’ll come around. Continue reading